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Saturday, March 14, 2015

What to Expect When You’re Expecting?

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People said, “an unexpected event might lead to a new outcome”. 
It’s true.

Nice Saturday morning. 
Life seem impossible for me without train. From college to my house, most of the time I travel by train. Five minutes before I grab the ticket, my dad told me,

“Good luck Efa. I wish you the best for final exam”.

...which I promise, I would never forget that daddy. 

In train, I chose to sit beside a fat woman. What??? I don’t think!

Two kids in front of me, smile sheepishly. Those kiddos realized that I was looking at them. They look sincere, innocent, laughing and jumping on seat near to the sealed train window, while my sitting partner – Eating. Sleeping. Eating again. 
Well, another reason to smile today. They were just beautiful to see!

One week rest at home. I was fully charged. Is it a big deal? I tell you…

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Last few terrible weeks, I felt like I’m going to die. However, unexpected events happened and awake me up.  

Problem - it’s hard to be a student and a teenager at the same time. 
Neither at first I thought, giving too much reaction doesn't seems appropriate nor to feel humiliate for being quiet at that time. This is not me! Feared of being notice to be absurd, I picked up my stuffs and went back home. It’s good to see my parents, helping them, spend more time with my siblings, do what ever things I like and gracious mocha, I found my strength.

As I told you earlier, an unexpected event might lead to a new outcome. At home: I talked to my brother, watched my favorite movies, read my favorite books, listened to new songs. Unexpectedly – all these giving me new motivation..inspiration and change my way of thinking. 
  
Now I believe something right will come along in a right time. The only matter is time! Nothing is forever in this world including problem. If you feel bad: stop complaining about your life, hurting yourselves, going to worst bar, get drunk like hell or hope to get killed with it. Just don't be.

Instead of suffering yourselves for having a horrific life, brings the happiness and be good to yourselves. Sounds easy right? No..actually not. Naaah..just give a try. One rule to be happy is to take a pause. Forget about those silly things. Enjoy or make a smart joke without letting yourself looks dummy. How? Perhaps...

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They are good movies + funny. I learn much from these movies. Take a moment in your life to learn about managing delicate matters with stylish jokes. 

What important is, don't forget to be YOLO to the maximum okay >_< !

Monday, March 2, 2015

YOLO! Because You Only Live Once in This World


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You are in the middle of the night. You could not sleep.

And it would be a great mistake to continue spending hours; forcing your body to do thing which it doesn’t want to. 

“Do something good” you said to yourself. Get your book. Scratch your idea. Open your notebook. Ready for writing.

Your goal is only one – to help yourself and other readers to keep their and yours feet on the ground. So you wrote, ‘pay close attention to the details!’

You kept your effort to the fullest moon. Don’t realize you had getting excited. With the unique blend of styles and ideas, you offered good words and advices. You told people about this and that..this and that…how to build..how to make..how to find..

You know yourself. You think this is a great work assigned by your lecturer. ‘What? I need to make a blog? Why so old school?’ is no longer in your favorite babbling list. No, you never babble anymore after you found out that this assignment had actually taught you how to grow yourself and how to explore your world by having more and more exercises in reading and writing activities. Waah.., sounds cool right?
It is like you looked into a mirror and saw a man, with in-depth style of thinking person and looked pleasant with a nice outfit. You knew you had been so exaggerated, so you cut some part of your writing…
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At the first moment, you had decided a theme for your blog. Knowing your strengths. ‘It doesn’t have to be too personal or too ambitious. Or else, people will easily get bored’. You thought so. But later come to your conscious, you told yourself: this is just a fear talking! So you came out with a better decision. Bravo. You have posting more and more articles. 
Dear lecturer, mission accomplished.
Home.
and more..
This is victory! 

Half past three. You had made most of the time to follow your passions. Now you feel satisfied. You had to end up your last sentence with a nice proverb,
“All the flowers of tomorrow are in the seeds of today’’.
Well, someone write this in his sticky note. YOLO!

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Hehe. It’s time to switch on your dream mood! Hey, where's my blanket?? Zzzzz....