Why You Can Never Date Your Own Lecturer ?

It is good to demonstrate positive attitude towards your lecturers.  It is also acceptable to see them enjoy in teaching and be enthusiastic in giving explanations.  Sometimes, it is hookay to have a very casual atmosphere during teaching and learning session in which, for many cases, it works in lowering the anxiety of students towards a course. 

But having a tendency to make a special relationship with them is not highly recommended.

I tell you the reasons.

1)     Tendency to misuse power

For instance, if your lecturer likes you and shows his/her interest to you but you just ignore him/her, than there will be a time in your life that your realise something goes wrong with your carry marks or if you show a good response to him/her, you easily get a higher mark but others are not? So, beware. This occasion is probably showing that he/she is having a tendency to misuse the power and being bias to other students.   

2)   Unable to make it public

“Shhh..keep ‘tis as a secret” is a common practice for those who have a relationship with their students or vice versa. There are many reasons why they want to keep this relationship not to be published. If you are a professional person, you’ll understand why.

3)   Kind of distraction

Normally, a person will face a hard time when looking to someone he likes or loves: heart beating fast, feeling high and full of excitement. If that person thinks he can have control over everything and acting cool in front of the lecturer he likes, he is actually not cool at all and out of control! Impossible for you to stay focus in class if this kind of situation happen. The worse part is when your grades and performances in class get affected. 

4)   Jealousy & defamation

No one can tell you what would be happen when your course mates hate or feel jealous with you after they find out that you are into a relationship with a lecturer that teach your course.  They will find ways to spread rumors, accuse you to get high marks because of your relationship and who knows, sooner or later, your lecturer will get fired because of the rumors and the defamation words uttered by other students. 

I think four is enough to consume at this moment. 

However, not all people would have the same case. Sometimes, this kind of relationship only works on certain people, if they comply with certain conditions and rules in relationship. We are talking about heart and feeling. Whaddya expect ??    

Brilliant partner:

Robinson, L. (2015, Feb 2). 7 reasons never to date your professor. Retrieved from  http://allwomenstalk.com/7-reasons-never-to-date-your-professor